Everyone desires to reach the top. That is good. We have to reach the top in life. Some people try to use the short cut of copying another person. They think if they copy they can also become successful like others. But there is no short cut for success or a magic solution for happiness. You are unique. Do not try to become another person.
Many of us are suffering from the ego problem. We do not want to bow our head to anyone. We want to prove that we are correct. Many small problems that can solve through discussions are not being settled. But we make it bigger because of our ego. Instead of creating a fight and destruction, we should try to solve problems and spread happiness.