Some people have a habit of talking wrong about a person just by looking at his dress or status. They may not know anything about that person, but just heard some fake news from others. Never judge a person without knowing the truth because what you see or hear may not be the quality and reality of that person.
Do you have true love with your family and relations? Are you getting true love from your family members? What will be your response when you find any deficiency or any kind of major health problems of your spouse or other family members? Sometimes, better to act like you have not seen the deficiencies of relation. True love will bring only happiness and will not make any loss.